Faculty Tribute: Rebecca Findlay

It was during my short-lived career as a coxswain during my IV Form spring that I really got to know Ms. Findlay. I remember it as if it were yesterday: a squall was approaching and my boat was the first to go out to Mercer Lake for practice. As the first drops of storm rain came against the wooden planks, we were eager to start practice despite the growing storm. Yet, as the lightning flashed, Ms. Findlay calmly and effectively got us back to shore. Once we were back on bay, I was experiencing frostbite, shaking violently. Ms. Findlay noticed me in the corner, unable to help the chaos unfolding in the boathouse as another boat crashed onto shore. She then threw her only poncho onto me before directing the rest of the team to safety. Ever since then, she has been one of my trusted adults on this campus.

I’ve known Ms. Findlay for a while before that. She has gone from my duty associate, to my coach, and now to a mentor in my life. It feels like only yesterday that Ms. Findlay was knocking on my door at 11:20 PM telling me that it was lights out.

However, when I think of Ms. Findlay, I think of Tuesday duty nights, deep conversations uncovering some fascinating facts about her, and our shared struggles. She brings an incomparable energy to the house that every Kirby girl can attest to. Her support during hard situations I have faced over the past three years has allowed me to gain the confidence and mentality that I found essential as a leader in the house. Her teaching has resonated with me throughout my time here. I can attest that Ms. Findlay’s attentiveness and care for her community and the Kirby girls has fostered house pride. I’ll forever remember Ms. Findlay, her lovely dog, her bright presence in the house, and her wise advice that has never failed me. The Lawrenceville and Kirby community will truly miss Ms. Findlay. On behalf of Kirby, your past  English and Latin students, the crew team, and everyone that has gotten to know you: thank you, Ms. Findlay. We all love you and are excited to see all that you do in the future.